Dating Tip – Do You Like Tough Girls?

This is Jaime.  She is a hot, tough little girl from Massachusetts and Las Vegas.  She can be intimidating.  You as man with “game”, you should not be afraid.  You should like the challenge of the win. You bought the latest pick up artist book from a guy with some fancy rock star name. You read all the posts in the pick up artist forums.  Everything you learned has worked for them, of course it will work for you.  They said it would. You are prepared.  You have  a strategy, an opener, a plan.  You approach her, she shoots you down.  What do you do?  Do you run with your tail between your ass or do you try to figure out a better way?  You regroup, you make the approach again, she spits you out like your a little nugget of meat caught between her back teeth.  That’s it, you quit.  Or do you?    She didn’t reject you, she rejected your approach.  Could it be that you really suck with your “game”?  You think you’ve got it, but the pathetic reality is that you don’t. Not even close.    You think that having “game” is all you need to attract women. That couldn’t be further from the truth.  You need to realize that picking up women is not about “game”.  It’s about you.  Game only gets you so far… with stupid girls. A better you, is what’s going to take you to the promise land.  It really isn’t your fault. There are a handful of self proclaimed  “Guru’s” out there that are selling these pick up artist programs. Marketing a bunch of fantasy land bullshit.  As mentioned before, they have fake names, one word names, they use to be a pimple faced loser but now they proclaim to be able to pick up any girl they desire.  That is a bunch of  crap!  They talk about openers, what women want, how to psychologically dissect a women. That’s a bunch of amateur psycho babble.

When you realize that instead of working on your “Game”,  you should work on you. That is when you will attract all kinds of women.  Creating a fake alter ego isn’t going to get it done.  Being a strong “real” you is what will do it for you.  Don’t get caught up in marketing hype.  Be real.

Would You Date Molly Sorelson?

Would You Date Molly Sorelson? - She’s the hot girl next door.

Want kind of man do you need to be to be able to date a girl like this?  Are you mentally prepared, strong, funny.  By her body language in the picture, she seems very sweet.  Is she really?  Are you Bad enough to go for it?

Dating Tip for Men – Do You Fear Rejection?

To Fear or Not To Fear, That is the Question.
What is the Number 1 Factor that keeps Men from dating more women?

#1. Not enough money.
#2. Not Enough Hair.
#3. Too Fat or Skinny.
#4. I’m an unemployed 37 year old lazy bastard that still lives with my parents.

Answer.. None of the Above. I would say that #4 could put a damper on your situation. The major factor that keeps men from dating more women is the FEAR OF REJECTION! Some guys just freeze up and won’t approach a girl because they don’t want to be rejected. The pain of rejection far outweighs the benefit of meeting a great girl. I don’t know anyone that likes being rejected. There is a hot girl with a smoking body, you get the courage to ask her out and out of nowhere she looks at you like you are a peasant, she flips you the bird and tells you to “Fuck off”. Who in there right mind likes that?
To help get over the fear of rejection, here is a fun exercise that I recommend you do.

I call it the “Perfect Exercise”.

I want you to think about how it would benefit you to get rejected and how it will benefit you if you get a date with a girl that you want to approach.
Here goes.
If she rejects me, gives me the middle finger and tells me to fuck off, it would benefit me because maybe she is an idiot in real life and if I dated her I would be miserable. Maybe she ends up being boring and then I’ll have to break up with her. Maybe she’ll turn me into a pussy whipped fool and I’ll spend my life sucking up to her and being ridiculed by my friends and family. Maybe she’ll steal my money and use it to take a vacation with a guy named “Serge”. Maybe she is incapable of pleasuring me and I’ll end up spending all my money on cheap drunk hookers that have bad hygiene. You see how perfect it is that she rejected you.. Aren’t you glad she said no.

Now let’s see the perfection in her saying yes. You meet the girl of your dreams, she is a great lover, she treats your parents with respect, she inherits a lot of money and has the both of you live in a mansion that is paid for. She has a friend that thinks your cute and wouldn’t mind a little threesome. You get the idea. It’s all perfect.

Get over the fear of rejection by simply believing that any outcome (rejection or not) is a perfect outcome that totally benefits you. This is a great exercise in life and with women. You see for every person out there is a mate. Don’t let the fear of rejection stop you.

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Are You Paralyzed Around Beautiful Women?

Here’s a dumb question.  Have you ever been afraid to approach a woman that you found attractive?  If you said no, then you are a lying sack of shit.  We all, at one time or another, have been afraid to approach a beautiful girl. Nobody wants to look like a fool and no one enjoys a chance to be cut down.  The pain of rejection far outweighs the pleasure of meeting a dynamite girl.  This sucks because the only thing that is holding you back is your fear or to be more specific, your “Approaching Anxiety”.  There are many ways to over come fear but a simple and effective way is…….Wait for it…”Practice”.  Yes, that’s right, I said “Practice”.  “But wait a minute, where or how do I practice approaching girls?”  Well, I am glad you asked.  Let me give you a very easy and fun exercise that will set you on your way to becoming a dating machine.

Today is a good day to start.

Step #1. Detach yourself from any outcome when doing this exercise.  This means don’t have any expectations and don’t try to ask for a phone number or try to get a date.

Step #2. Put yourself into a relaxed state. Be aware of your body language, and your mental attitude.  Be carefree, funny, put a little smirk on your face.  You Da Man!

Step #3.  Here it is….It’s really hard(sarcasm).   Make eye contact, smile  and say ?‘Hi”  to  every girl you meet. Don’t stare, just make eye contact, smile and say hi.  Then keep going about your business.
Meet girls at coffee shops and just be cool.  If you order a coffee from a girl at the counter and she is wearing a name tag, say “Hi” followed by her name.  When you get your order say “Thank you” followed by her name. This will be true for anytime you encounter a female service person that is wearing a name tag.  By the way, you must do this even if the women is old, chubby, has facial hair and has a zit the size of a tennis ball growing out the side of her nose. No women get left behind.

Simple places to meet and greet women are: the mall, clothing stores, women who sit near you, co workers, public transportation, a girl waiting in line ahead of you or in back of you.

The key to this exercise is to detach yourself from any outcome. Have zero expectations and most of all try to have fun.  The more you meet and greet women the easier it will be when it count’s.

Getting over “Approach Anxiety” could take 5 minutes or a lifetime. It is totally in your control.  Make the most of your day by meeting new women.  The sooner you create this ritual as a daily habit, the sooner you will attain your goals.

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Dating Women Tip – Are You Man Enough?

We at MensTelevision.com are always asking women about their opinion on men and dating. It’s only logical because you should get as much information as you can so that you can be a better dater.

One trait that women would like to change about the men that they meet is that they would like them to grow up. Some guys think that it is OK to act like an immature moron.   I will give you a hint, acting like an irresponsible kid totally turns women off.  The reality is that women hate men who act like boys.  A man that acts mature and has mature characteristics naturally attract women.  Even party girls are suckers for men that have it all together.

Here are some of the character traits that women are attracted to:
Relaxed and Calm,
Confident,
Focused,
Courage,
Selfless,
Passionate,
Patient,
Goal Oriented,
Humility,
Sense of Humor,
Decisiveness.

You don’t have to act like an old man with no sense of humor.  Girls don’t want to date “GrandPa”.  You can have fun.  The point is women are naturally attracted to men that are mature no matter your age.  Rate yourself on some of these traits and see how you stand.  If you feel you need to make adjustments, then that is perfect. You are on your way to having beautiful women be naturally attracted to you.

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