How to Flirt with Women – Drop the Nice Guy Act

Dating Women

Want a quick sure fire way of repelling women? Be the “Nice Guy” and see how far you get.

Let me tell you about a man I know named Loomis. Loomis has a habit of sabotaging every relationship he “thinks” he is in. When ever Loomis is with a girl he automatically puts on his “nice guy” hat and starts becoming a spineless goof. He does all the girls chores, he buys all the meals, he pays for all the movie tickets, he buys girls all these gifts and basically kisses every square inch of a girls ass.

Where do you think this kind of behavior has taken Loomis? I’ll tell you where, to “I just want to be friendsville”. Yup, that’s right, she just wants to be friends. “Just being friends” means one of 2 things. Either she want’s to take advantage of you because she knows your a puppy dog, or she wants nothing to do with you but keeps you around because your a “nice guy” and doesn’t want to hurt your feelings.

You see it is not Loomis’s fault that he acts this way. He has been a victim of social conditioning. Society tell us that being a “nice guy” is what women want. That’s a bunch of crap. The “nice guy” behavior only makes women believe that the man has no value. A women doesn’t truly respect a man that goes out of his way to be nice. You will never be taken seriously with women if you just keep on being an accommodating wuss. She’ll walk all over you and then you will be stuck with nothing in the relationship except a lower self worth and value.

It’s OK to be interested and nice, but you still need to present the women with a challenge.
Instead of being the “nice guy”, be an interesting person who constantly challenges women. Don’t just drop everything for the girls attention. Teasing, flirting, even playing a little hard to get is a better option. Make her know your time is valuable.
By holding yourself to a higher standard, you will be creating value for yourself. A man that has high value is more attractive to a women.
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  1. I think women want a nice guy who also has a little dangerous side. For instance, you need to create a subtle sexual tension unless you want to end up forever seen as a best friend type.


  2. Lee says:

    My best skill is my ability to flirt with women.


  3. Phil says:

    I think you have to be a nice guy if you want a girl. Girls don’t like jerks.


  4. Click says:

    Nice Guys never date the girls.


  5. tukkah says:

    I am not going to be original this time, so all I am going to say that your blog rocks, sad that I don’t have suck a writing skills


  6. Oliver says:

    Good show. I need more help picking up women


  7. Not bad article, I will try to flirt better next time. This has really helped me. Thanks again..


  8. TNA says:

    Every time I am a nice guy, I lose. I am glad you wrote this.


    The Gang Reply:

    Nice Guys get taken for granted. You need to throw a little chin music every once in a while


  9. David Deangelo says:

    Your correct. I am the greatest pick up artist in the world. You have to drop the nice guy act.


  10. Paul says:

    I like a little flirting it, make it fun.


  11. hot4u says:

    you are very very nice.!!!!!!!


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