Dating Tips for Men – Are You A Confident Stud?

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The key to picking up women is not about cheesy pick up lines, it is about how confident you present yourself.  Women are immediately attracted to men who exude confidence and have a high self esteem.
If you want to start a conversation with a girl and you come across as being nervous or fearful, you just made a really bad first impression.  Women like confident and calm men. It’s embedded in their nature. Working on your confidence and self esteem is probably the most important task you can work on to date more women.

Here are 3 tips on how to improve your self confidence.

1.  Relaxation is your secret edge. Learn Relaxation Techniques. It can’t be stressed  enough, the number one approaching tool you need to increase your dating women is your ability to relax. When you are stressed out you project that emotion to everyone around you. Women can pick up your nervousness and will not feel comfortable.  When you are relaxed you slow down, you make better decisions, you are on your game. Women pick up on your confidence and will be attracted to you.  Meditation,  deep breathing exercise, and yoga are great ways to relax.  One added bonus for yoga, 90 percent of all members are women who are trying to better themselves.  Do you think this is a good place to meet women?

2.  Exercise.  It is a great way to build your self esteem.  Weight training, running, playing sports will boost your confidence because your body will be in peak condition.  Exercising on a regular basis releases endorphins and it makes you feel alive and ready for action.

3.  Be aware of your mental and physical state.  When your out with people be aware of how your body posture is and how you feel mentally.  Is your body straight and relaxed?  Are you smiling?  Are you in a mental state that is  positive and alert.  These are traits that are essential to meeting women.  Do you like being around women that are slouched and negative?  Even girls that are considered a level 10 are unattractive if they have lousy attitudes.  Get in the habit of being aware of your body language and your attitude and you will benefit not only with your dating but also with all aspects of your life.

You never have a second chance to make a first impression, so make sure your first impression is one that exudes confidence and a high self worth.  You will find that women love it and you can attain anything you desire.

Photo Source-Cody Love @Twisty’s


  1. Beed says:

    THanks.. better than that david deangelo guy


  2. Kosmo says:

    My Confidence allows me to pick up any women I want.


  3. David D. says:

    I am not a confident stud. I suck with women


  4. Q says:

    I am slowly getting al of this down. I got 10 sets under my belt. I have a better idea on how to fix my problems. The only problem I am having right now is I cant express good body language and I need more emotion in my voice. I practiced my openers I have a really good wing as well . So I think I am making so progress. I used the best friend and it worked! I looked online for good openers I couldnt really find any could you tell me good sites to find them. One more thing that I am having trouble with is attraction. I can’t seem to get this down at all. I can make friends out of the sets I just cant get them to be attracted to me. Once again I like to thank you for all your help your a good mentor.


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